{"id":59,"date":"2020-01-27T20:43:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-27T20:43:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2021-12-22T22:01:55","modified_gmt":"2021-12-22T22:01:55","slug":"im-not-gonna-give-it-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/2020\/01\/27\/im-not-gonna-give-it-away\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m Not Gonna Give it Away!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One of my favorite topics to discuss is sales and negotiation.&nbsp; &nbsp; The seller who says &#8220;I&#8217;m not gonna give it away&#8221; really means, I&#8217;m unwilling to consider an offer that low.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/freehouse.jpg\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"1065\" data-original-width=\"1600\" height=\"211\" src=\"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/freehouse-300x200.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a>Of course I&#8217;ve never asked anyone to give their house away, however, it&#8217;s an interesting concept.&nbsp; A gift?&nbsp; Is that what the seller thinks?&nbsp; Would that be a taxable event for either party?&nbsp; (there is an answer to that question, but I digress).<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><i><b><br \/><\/b><\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><i><b><br \/><\/b><\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><i><b><br \/><\/b><\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><i><b><br \/><\/b><\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-large;\"><i><b>I&#8217;m not gonna give it away&#8230;.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Without knowing anything else about the context of the offer or the response, this response tells me a few things.&nbsp; This response means you&#8217;re out of rapport with the seller.&nbsp; This means they consider your offer to be out of line.&nbsp; &nbsp; So what should you do?&nbsp; Well, one thing would be to anticipate this objection and explain how you approached the offer.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately I have to laugh when I hear this response.&nbsp; If I wanted you to give it away, I wouldn&#8217;t have offered anything at all &#8211; I would have just asked you to give me the house.&nbsp; I&#8217;ve certainly bought houses for the existing debt, and in that way, I have had houses &#8220;given&#8221; to me, with certain caveats.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the best way to respond to this or any objection:&nbsp; call them by name, agree, and ask questions.<\/p>\n<p>Something like this:&nbsp; Well Mr. Seller I agree, I wouldn&#8217;t want you to give it away.&nbsp; I think what I hear you saying is you think my offer is too low, is that right?&nbsp; How low too low is it?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of my favorite topics to discuss is sales and negotiation.&nbsp; &nbsp; The seller who says &#8220;I&#8217;m not gonna give it away&#8221; really means, I&#8217;m unwilling to consider an offer that low. Of course I&#8217;ve never asked anyone to give their house away, however, it&#8217;s an interesting concept.&nbsp; A gift?&nbsp; Is that what the seller [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":132,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pagelayer_contact_templates":[],"_pagelayer_content":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[25,18,34,33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-coaching-tips","category-investor-tips","category-sales-and-negotiation","category-seller-tips"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":133,"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59\/revisions\/133"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/132"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mn.arenter.com\/coach2\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}